Is it wrong to want to get married in the south of France even though we have no ties there 🥹

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Totally fine and normal. Lovely place to get married! Not everyone will be able to attend, and you will receive fewer/cheaper gifts.

Yes if most of the people you’re planning to invite would find it difficult (financially or otherwise) to attend, but would feel obligated to.

NO! You are in no way wrong for doing a wedding in the South of France. Ties there or not. This is a special day in which you both will share forever. Plus it is a very beautiful place to do it in,I have friends there and have seen the amazing locations there are.

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