I've been training my coworker to stand up to our boss, who can be a real domineering creep, especially to the girls in the office. Today I heard her say "That's beyond the boundaries of my contract, so unfortunately, I can't help you" and walk away. I felt just like this 😭 He emailed me saying she was unprofessional, but I feel nothing but pride! Do you think she was in the wrong? He was asking her to stay hours late last minute (again).

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She asserted herself. Of course a creep would say she’s unprofessional 🙄- shocker!

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Sounds a little harsh to say to your boss. Although my job is more straightlaced than most I think so maybe I'm biased

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