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There’s no universal rule. You decide what works for you.
I want an equal partner in every sense of the word. So if someone isn’t able to meet me there financially then we wouldn’t be compatible for each other.
Are you a male or female? Isn’t it hard to find someone at same exact financial level?
Then ya gotta go 50/50 on the cooking, cleaning, etc
It has to be 50/50 on everything. I own my place and told my boyfriend that if he wants to pay less than half my monthly expenses (mortgage, HOA, and utilities), he would need to make up for it in household chores like cooking/cleaning, but I wouldn’t expect him to chip in for repairs or taxes regardless
@senior consultant 1-do you expect her boyfriend to live there for free when she’s got all the household expensed?
I think it’s great that they discuss it, and continue to do so-that’s what you call a healthy relationship
Let me put it to you this way.
If she’s a “feminist” I give her the “equality” she asked for.
If not, I pay the bill and give her a ring and an easy stress free life.
Every healthy relationship is 50/50 over a long run even if you’re financially contributing 100% and your partner 0%. It wouldn’t work otherwise.
My current bf is 50/50 it’s new to me but then I realized I can’t do it because I’m poorer than him so I actually end up eating less or doing less because I can’t afford as much and I’m like man he’s so selfish like giving and sharing a lil is not a big deal, I’d do it in his position if I had more money. So I’m struggling rn with that like if you love someone and see them struggling, won’t you wanna pitch in anyway? It’s so awk when we go out and eat I order lil appetizers and he will get himself a meal and his privilege continuously shows but I am surprised like he doesn’t see me for me. I’m respecting him that’s his money but idk I’m confused. At beginning I thought why not it’s not a big deal but then it just can’t be equal when you’re poorer.
We will be 1 year in 2 months