Just curious. What's your thoughts on going 50/50 in a relationship?

like
Posting as :
works at
You are currently posting as works at

There’s no universal rule. You decide what works for you.

I want an equal partner in every sense of the word. So if someone isn’t able to meet me there financially then we wouldn’t be compatible for each other.

like

Are you a male or female? Isn’t it hard to find someone at same exact financial level?

Then ya gotta go 50/50 on the cooking, cleaning, etc

like

It has to be 50/50 on everything. I own my place and told my boyfriend that if he wants to pay less than half my monthly expenses (mortgage, HOA, and utilities), he would need to make up for it in household chores like cooking/cleaning, but I wouldn’t expect him to chip in for repairs or taxes regardless

like

@senior consultant 1-do you expect her boyfriend to live there for free when she’s got all the household expensed?
I think it’s great that they discuss it, and continue to do so-that’s what you call a healthy relationship

Let me put it to you this way.

If she’s a “feminist” I give her the “equality” she asked for.

If not, I pay the bill and give her a ring and an easy stress free life.

like

Every healthy relationship is 50/50 over a long run even if you’re financially contributing 100% and your partner 0%. It wouldn’t work otherwise.

like

My current bf is 50/50 it’s new to me but then I realized I can’t do it because I’m poorer than him so I actually end up eating less or doing less because I can’t afford as much and I’m like man he’s so selfish like giving and sharing a lil is not a big deal, I’d do it in his position if I had more money. So I’m struggling rn with that like if you love someone and see them struggling, won’t you wanna pitch in anyway? It’s so awk when we go out and eat I order lil appetizers and he will get himself a meal and his privilege continuously shows but I am surprised like he doesn’t see me for me. I’m respecting him that’s his money but idk I’m confused. At beginning I thought why not it’s not a big deal but then it just can’t be equal when you’re poorer.

We will be 1 year in 2 months

Related Posts

Sometimes I feel like I am a drone that just works all the time and I have no friends.

likefunny

At first I wondered why everyone in my office was married to/dating each other. But now it makes sense, they're the only people you ever freaking see 😐

like

Anyone raising desi kids in the US? What are are some of your fears?

like

AITA? If my SO of 1 year wants to get a dog, do I get an opinion? We don’t live together

How do you guys make friends in a new town?

like

I'm planning to move with family to Kochi inorder to join in one of the company in infopark. Please suggest good place to get a flat or house to stay with small kids.

like

Has anyone ever been to the Alo Restaurant? I have never been there myself but I was wondering if this would be a good setting to propose?

like

Ugh, is that time of year again! Does anyone have any advice on how to handle "friends" and family members who spout conspiracy theories to avoid getting the flu shot

like

It’s week 5 for me of the breakup and even though I had a full and fun weekend with friends and people I love, I woke up today so so sad because I wanted to text my ex. I just feel overall so defeated and exhausted from sadness and unmotivated at work :(

like

Any recommendations for books for desi parents ? Politics , economics, world order , self help

Do you tell your boss you’re going through a breakup? I’m phoning it in and obviously going to be camera off for awhile.

like

Have lost so many loved ones in this pandemic. Just cannot get over it!

like

She fell in love with a consultant and...

Post Photo
funnylike

For those of you with immediate family members who are at high risk, how are you doing? I find myself being very anxious and stressed about my father getting sick.

like

What are some myths you all have heard to figure out if you’re having a boy or girl?

like

My mental health has taken a nose dive. I’m considering breaking up with my fiancee so she doesn’t have to go through the hassle of dealing with me anymore.

like

Hello! I am being asked to create a "back to school" shopping list for my art class. What would you suggest asking for from parents? I'm moving to a new school with no former art program.

Desi parents: what time do your kids go to sleep at night? We have a 23 mo and his bedtime schedule starts at 6:30 PM and he sleeps by 7 PM. This was suggested by our sleep consultant and has worked well for us, but recently we are getting a lot of hate for not bringing our toddler to evening dinners etc. We are being told that most kids sleep around 9 PM or being asked to put the toddler in one of the rooms. Every kid in my husbands family apparently doesn't sleep before 9 PM or later.

like

Looking for a good daycare or nanny in Cambridge. About a year out but everywhere seems to have waitlists. Any guidance here?

like

What do we think the firms can to support our trans brothers and sisters?

likehelpful

More Posts

I’m a Dental Hygiene student in North Mississippi. I have worked as an dental assistant for 11 years. Hygienist in my office wrk on commission. What is the pay difference in a commission hygiene and one paid hourly.

like

How do we get into Google Operations Center?

like

mmm tasty bone

Post Photo
like

I see there’s been lots of activity here. :)
Anyone up for getting this group off the ground?

like

We recieved a 30 day notification for RTO but does anyone know when we will receive email with exact date ?

like

Fishes who applied for UK Visa, I need to submit last 3 year's ITR. Which one of the below shall I submit -

1) Single page Receipt from the IT Portal.
2) Multi page detailed form from the IT portal.
3) Intimation 143(1) which IT department sends after processing.

Help appreciated. Thanks

like

My status at Accenture portal is Offer accepted.
When it will change to 'Hired' ?

like

Can EY track what states your working in ?

like

Just listened to the Geek in Review podcast episode. I’m intrigued.

like

If 1 more person says “where do I buy xrp” or “how do I buy altcoins” I’m gonna tattoo google on my damn forehead

like

Hello Fishes, Infosys I need urgent help. I got selected as Lead consultant in Infosys with package 29 LPA with 20% variable. YOE is 15 years. Is is as per market standard? Or should I negotiate more ? TIA

like

I’m shooting for the moon and applying to jobs I am mentally ready for and can qualify for but my resume is very short sweet and to the point because I’ve worked at the same place for 6 year and climbed the ladder & wanting something new. How do I explain that to my future employer?

like

What are some good websites to use for searching and applying for job postings? I am looking to lateral and have been using LinkedIn and Indeed so far. Any other ideas?

like

0 partners of color in group of 20 partners

Was told the lack of diverse partnership was because there wasn’t good minorities to hire. How do I even address this stupidity.

likehelpful

🥰 Good morning, here’s a Thought for Today: What can we do in our teaching practice to ensure that the term Antiracist does NOT become synonymous with anti white? 🤔

smartlike

We will be administering the Algebra 1 End of Course Assessment next week.. what are some ideas for recognizing those who perform well as well as those who've had significant increase from previous scores?

like

Planning on retaking reg in three weeks. Got 62 and weaker on all the main section in Q4 2017. I didn’t do well on the time management and sims. Any suggestions? Is it enough time? Need motivation.

I'm going to Machu Picchu next month with my brother and hiking the Inca trail. Any recommendations on what I absolutely need to bring for the hike? Anyone who hiked the Inca trail take like a battery pack or something with them for their camera?

Also, I'm considering bringing my drone even tho I know I can't take it into any of the sacred places like Machu picchu. I also have to register it with customs when I get into the country. Is it still worth taking? I can use it around Cusco and Lima

likehelpfulfunny

Thoughts on a m340i? I might just pull the trigger.

like

Looking for a referral to Dell, thanks in advance! Can provide more info in dm.

like

Additional Posts in Singles in Chicago

Anyone going to the singles event this weekend in Gold Coast?

like

What’s everyone doing this weekend 🧐

like

Anyone want to hangout?

like

What’s everyone up to this weekend? 🥳

like

30 M seeking a 30 and up F. Looking for a casual conversation and maybe going out to dinner one day.

like

Can we all collectively come together to help IBM find a true match?

@IBM. What are you looking for? What has worked and what has not worked in the past? And please provide any other information you believe would be relevant and helpful for all of us to know.

likefunny

Showing off my new badge

likefunny

Any F 🐠 want meet up for drinks tonight? 31/m

like

What do young single people do other then date and hang with friends?

like

Anyone want to go on a date today? 🤷🏻‍♀️

likefunny

If you guys haven't tried online speed dating thefun.singles/chicago it's a blast. If you hate apps but also don't want to be out casual dating because of Covid, this is a lot of fun. Only wish I connected with more people in Chicago. A few were suburbs & other cities.

like

I would like to start a monthly restaurant supper club, OR if anyone has one I want to join.

like

What’s everyone doing today 🧐

like

Gorgeous night, 36/m, anyone want to meet for a drink?

like

Seems like there’s a few 30+ females in this bowl. Lmk if you are ever down for a brunch or dinner. I could use some gal pals 💃🏻

like

Any F fishes down to grab a drink? 25 M

like

Hello everyone trust your weekend is going on well.
I'm not completely certain how this platform works but it appears I could use some likes on my profile to unlock its full usage.

likefunny

Good places to grab a drink solo? Im a 25yo woman.

like

Anyone want to grab a drink? 🏳️‍🌈

like

New to Fishbowl?

Download the Fishbowl app to
unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.
That was just a preview…
Sign Up to see all discussions
  • Discover what it’s like to work at companies from real professionals
  • Get candid advice from people in your field in a safe space
  • Chat and network with other professionals in your field
Sign up in seconds to unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.

Already a user?
Login here

Share

Embed this post

Copy and paste embed code on your site

Preview

Download the
Fishbowl app

See what’s happening in your industry
from the palm of your hand.

A phone with Fishbowl app

Scan your QR code to download
Fishbowl app on your mobile

Download app

Sign up for free to view this conversation on Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use and Privacy Policy

Already have an account? Log in

Sign up for free to continue using Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use(New) and Privacy Policy(New)
Messaging rates may apply

Already have an account? Log in

For account settings, visit Fishbowl on Desktop Browser or

General

Legal