Looking a male 🐠 in their early to mid 50’s for my mom. If you or anyone you know who might be a good match. Please click the link below

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Why can’t my exes leave me alone

There’s this guy at work I really like. We’re really really good friends but I’ve caught feels since the day I met him and I just want to tell him how I feel but I don’t want to ruin our great friendship. He’s the closest friend I have.

My brother-in-law (age 30) told us recently that he is transgender. How can we support him? (‘Him’ as we haven’t discussed pronouns yet). It was a surprise to us!

My girlfriend of 4 years routinely gets so angry at me in the form of “triggers.” She has childhood trauma from her terrible parents. I’ve gone to therapy with her to learn techniques to help, but when I do them during one of her triggers she says I didn’t do them. Later I’ll learn that she’s literally does not remember things I say and do when she’s in a dissociated state. Tonight it was because I didn’t get her oil changed like I said I would. Now she’s threatening to break up because idk how

One of ex’s friends who is I met twice, has been in touch, him and his wife, like commenting on some of my posts occasionally (we are just fb friends and IG friends). I never saw them since. Then the friend texts asking if I am seeing someone and that he wants to set me up with someone. He felt awkward doing that, I thanked him for thinking of me, but then he said we all told your ex he is an idiot for letting you go and they asked my ex it they could still be touch with me and he said yes.

I'm an engineer, and I feel like my manager is more of a friend than anything else. We talk about our personal lives, and I feel like it's hard to be completely honest with her when she's so casual with me. I don't want to lose our friendship, but I also need to be able to talk honestly with someone who has the power to help me grow professionally. Is there a way to have both?

I 130 bona fide marriage - got married to a US citizen last weekend. What do submit in 130 to prove bona fide marriage? We met during corona and didn’t travel anywhere.. also didn’t take pics as we were not thinking about immigration stuff.. open a joint account??

Any F fishes want to hang out at the dock and go boating over the weekend?

I struggle with imposter syndrome big time and want to start therapy, but I really don't want my husband to find out that I'm going to a therapist. It'd just be too embarassing. Is that awful of me?

Secretly glad October is coming to a close. I have two friends doing "Sober October" and I love them but it's insufferable. They keep saying things like "Ugh this is so hard, I don't know how you ...

Need advice. Very Shy guy and girl, met a while back for a side hustle both like each other a LOT, relationship has progressed in other areas but not in the physical realm, primarily because neither officially asked the other out. Guy is a very rough around edges, asked for a date by saying ‘anytime you need breakfast or lunch, let me know’. I am an independent gal and didn’t like the way it came across. I really want to take this forward but am out of ideas on how to make a date happen.

I feel like I wouldn't get many tips as a server because I'm a guy, is this really true or am I just making it up?

Any places you would recommend for a good massage in center city (not looking for happy endings)

Plan on visiting SFO this August and wanted to check if any F is up for drinks or dinner spend some quality time. Male 34 , tall 5 11, brown and happy to message and set up some time if we find each other interesting.

I hate that I still want to hear from him. I just have no idea what I want him to say or what I want to say. I feel like if I get anywhere near him he’ll be able to sense my pain. Are we sure the no contact rule is only 21 days? I feel like I need 21 months.

How does one get on at a family office?

I might get a lot of shade for this but tbh I never understood the hype of big fours. I feel I would have just been a slave there. Why would anyone trade their time and time with family for slave hours and money that you could make having your own thing or somewhere else? Everybody sounds miserable at big fours. What’s ur take?

Anyone have any good book recommendations around building passive income sources/building wealth?

Hi, I am in the process of getting the Offer from Legato Health for Technical Lead II position in Data Science.
How much CTC should I ask for based on the role and Legato standards.

YOE - 11 years
Education - M.S (non IIT, NIT)
Current Organization- Product based

I received an offer for $74k as underwriting analyst. Company is based out of DC. Is $74k a good offer? Or should I negotiate for more. 6 years in the industry. 5 as an account manager/underwriting assistant

I am looking to make a career change to HR. I currently make 75K as a sales and development coach. I had a recent offer for a state government position in a talent acquisition role but I’d be taking a $25K pay cut. I am extremely over qualified for the position but it could possibly be a stepping stone and gives me the time to acquire SHRM certifications and possibly start taking classes to get my MBA. My question is those currently in an HR role, would this move make sense to you?

Can I sue a company for posting my address on social media (cont’d)

Any recs for a solid men’s body wash with a good but not very strong scent? Tired of Axe and other mediocre brands. Like the Kiehls at equinox but don’t wanna drop that much $$ either

Where do we draw the line of being an alcoholic? (Asking for a friend)

Just a Lauren in CA looking for her Cameron 🙌🏽

Anyone haves OB/GYN in the Chicagoland area you would suggest? Looking for west suburbs, Elmhurst, Lombard area. Thanks!

Hello,

Can ex-TCSer join back TCS??

What are the best areas to live in w/ easiest commute to south station/seaport area? I’ll be moving alone so looking for a fun area for 25 y/o to meet people and go out. Will also want to have a car (either on street parking or off is fine)

In how many days, BDO rise give reply to your interview 2nd round? Anyone here from BDO rise here?

Hi 🐠@Morganstanley

Is there any time limit to avail relocation amount . I joined recently but currently working from home . Not yet planned to return to the office . So I just wanted to know if there is any time limit before I should get it or I will get the amount whenever I relocate.

Does anyone feel like they don’t want to go back to normal? On the one hand, absolutely I want to. I miss seeing friends, dressing up, going out, and traveling for work. On the other hand I have saved so much money over the past year, spent a lot more time with family than I would have ever been able to, and actually rested and been able to focus on my wellness (started therapy and treatment for a chronic condition.)

What's up everyone?? Hope you have a great weekend!

PPMDs - how’s your weekend starting off....
F 🐠, what’s the quarantine weekend plan?

Any F🐠 up for a drink tonight in SF?

This bowl is literally a watering hole for thirst traps and I am here for it. 🙂

Any LA / OC / F / interested in coffee or drinks ?

Based in Newport Beach / 50s / Fit / M

Big milestone birthday coming up next month... what should I do to celebrate?

F 🐠 32 in NYC - anyone in the New York area?

For any bumble users if you have an iPhone you’re paying more than your android friends for any of their services. Just wanted to share.Price difference is $80 for one of there plans and an extra 10 or 20 on the other plans. I’ve heard of iPhone users being charged more for hotels etc a few years back and recently this was mentioned in a museums went to.

This group is dead - Partners definitely are boring

Anyone in this bowl??

So how’s everyone holding up here?

Where are people traveling to these days?

Happy Valentines Day!

41/m/nyc anyone interested in grabbing a drink

Any fishes in this bowl visiting Goa for Christmas/new year?
Can speed date! Drop a text or comment.

28 F... Not a PPMD but open to dating one

Out here in frosty Sioux City Iowa after a long day of meetings.. heading to the casino near my hotel to throw some money around and warm myself up.... who wants in?

Any Female in Chicago for a drink?