Mapped to a exec who isn’t related to my field. Canceled every 1:1 with me since 2021 but spoke to me twice this year to passively aggressively raise performance issues during known personal issues. Didn’t mention achievements. I’m told to not talk or respond to emails from them, even if they contain questions. Can never explain myself & have no trail. Even taunted me by calling me “tone deaf” & “you don’t get it” & didn’t sign bereavement card. Salvageable? Doomed? Tips?

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Wait they told you not to talk to them or respond to their emails? That’s wild and yes. Unsalvagable.

It is what they said, yes. Thank you for the POV.

Have you talked to HR about this? This is insane.

Thank you. I did. HR said that it’s unacceptable that I was told not to communicate and said that I should put time in to speak with my boss. That’s all they offered up.

My boss is so high up the food chain that I’m positive they would just fire me for even raising this and so I’ve been trying to lay low and stay out of harm’s way. I’m on a visa and so if I lose my job I have a major issue.

If you’re not allowed to answer emails or speak to them then yes, 100% unsalvageable. If you cannot move teams, time to start applying.

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