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Yes but tbh it was related to how shitty our work computers are lol
I feel that lol
I have cried more in the past six months since starting this job then I have in the previous six years. And I work in a really collegial office. Just having trouble with the stress and constant feelings of inadequacy.
Everyone feels inadequate when they first start. As others have said, that will pass.
Coach
These tears don’t fall, they CRASH around me!
I’m fine expressing my emotions, and cry from time to time. Stress, unmet expectations, joy, etc. Felt it all in the office, and cried about it 😅
Yeah but I just naturally cry a ton, biglaw or otherwise
If you haven't had some sad horrible news broken to you while you're at the office you just haven't had your turn yet or you have nothing going on in your life that you really care about. When your dog dies or your mom or dad and you get the news at work, please, go ahead and cry. And if I'm your friend feel free to come down the hall and cry in my office and I'll give you a hug 🤗.
My stress manifests as anger, so no.
Yes, just recently. Purely a cry about work related stress and anxiety. I’m a six year lot associate fyi.
Lit associate* “lot associate” just describes my workload.
Also it was by myself during work from home, so in my living room.
No
Mentor
No. I usually just scream at my computer and then go back to work. I don’t have time to cry
Mentor
Again, female here but you can continue to work with tears dripping in your coffee.
Bunch of times to both.
No, it's just work and I've never experienced this inability to have time off or have had to miss many events. But I'm in tax so maybe it's different
No. Can't imagine caring enough to do so. Probably more likely to tell someone to f-off and leave me alone than cry unfortunately.
No lol.
Mentor
that’s great A33, but why the “lol”?!
Mentor
Nah
Mentor
No
Enthusiast
Yep, have definitely rage-cried before. (Thankfully not in the office; this was at home during a 300-hour month in late 2020.)
No