My boss gaslighted me about my April promotion. Can I gaslight her about working?

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Have anything in writing that suggests you were up for an April promotion?

Don’t f🎉💩k around and find out - sounds like your manager messed up here. And if you feel you’ve been lead on, and it was verbally expressed or in writing, go to their superior and document it. If it was a caddy swipe, that’s just a bad manager, or someone who lacks empathy and understanding of their role.

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