My father’s friend (not a super close friend more of an associate) is the CEO and founder of a pretty prominent company. I was laid off a while ago and want to contact him to ask him to put in a word for me with the firms he hires, but I feel weird about it since I haven’t talked to him personally in years.

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I’m sorry to hear you were laid off. Personally, unless I know someone well, I will point them to the right people to speak with, but I’m not going to vouch for them. What year/practice area are you in?

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If you’re going to call him, make it about getting advice or to pick his brain. Don’t make it about getting a job or a recommendation. He may offer eventually but let it come from him

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If I needed a job I would check in with any connections I had. Can’t make them help you, but might as well ask.

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This sounds like a wild ask. You (nor your father) sound close enough for this person to put their name on recommending you tbh

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If you think you have nothing to lose, call and ask him. You’re in a desperate situation and if he’s not close enough anyway, it doesn’t matter what he (or randos on fishbowl) thinks of the ask.

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