my former boss texts me once in a while and is being kinda flirty. Maybe he thinks since we don’t work together it’s ok to hit on my now. I did have a crush but also know he’s married ugh.

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Stay away from married people.

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Send a copy of texts to his wife.

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Roll with it. Life is too short

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Walk far away no good will of this for you. Only getting your feelings hurt from attachment.

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