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Document everything you can. Ultimately bring in HR if it's past "stylistic" or "managerial" issues and you become a target.

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Definitely document. Look up the terms "hostile work environment" and "constructive discharge"

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It is good to put a boundary between work and personal life and to treat work without emotions, it is just a transaction. By not getting into emotions you also look professional and level-headed and capable of making sensible decisions.

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easier to put the boundary when you have 6-8 months of budget saved too. youre not dependent on a check. OP, save as much as you can and get frugal - then get out of there

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