Overwhelmed, very stressed, and feeling generally incompetent at work this week. In the back of my mind I am also terrified that I’m somehow hurting my growing baby. Any positive words would be really appreciated.

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I feel the same. 😞

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At least we’re not alone!

I’m confident you’re doing your best at work. I think feeling overwhelmed and incompetent comes with the territory of law, it’s not you. Worrying about your baby comes with the territory of pregnancy. Take a deep breath, identify and assert boundaries for your and baby’s well being, and keep going. Use your vacation days if you have them to take breaks.

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