Pretty lost now. Not sure what next. I started my career in the back/mid office of a large financial institution. Pivoted to consulting and was at MBB for less than 2 years. Now at a restructuring firm for almost 3 years. I don’t see my future here but where I could be? Almost 10 years of different experiences now I’m on my way to 40….feeling like a loser.

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Sounds like a rich kid first world problem

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Have some empathy

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I'd suggest doing what you don't absolutely hate, for a living. Life is short, hating your job is such a horrible way to live. Maybe it will mean making less money. Maybe it won't. I try to live my life like someone who got a second chance at life, as if I got a life-threatening disease. Except I didn't. I am not going to wait for a wake-up call. I found something I actually enjoy. I hope you do too.

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Love this, C1. OP, recommend reading Designing your Life

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I don’t know one person who wakes up everyday and says ,” Yep, this is exactly what I want to do forever.” I’m 34, a consultant, in school and double majoring in psychology and computer science, a dad, a husband, and a friend. I recently just switched positions for my daughter and took a 20k pay-cut. On paper I was devastated but, somehow I’ve ended up making almost the same money with this new company. The point of that isn’t to say, “hey, look at everything I do. This is how to be happy.” But I truly wasn’t happy and decided to start doing something about it. You only get one life my friend, if something’s not working then take some time and figure it out. I don’t know about you but I do a lot of praying and I’d be remiss if I didn’t mention I have alway had a lot of faith in God. Now, when I look at my life, I see proof because there’s no way I could’ve done all of this on my own. I hope this helps in someway and good luck!! Truly!

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Find a life outside of work

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This. I got trapped in a well paying remote role that gave no pleasure, human connection or emotional reward. I've reduced my hours and brougt my quality of life up by actually having one 🙂

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Dear Consultant, such questions often cross my mind as well. I am in somewhat similar situation. I suggest to continue to stay in Financial industry. With your diverse experience in financial setting, I suggest to do look through any certification you can take to give you some clarity. In between ask yourself where you will confident, presenting or doing back end work.
I am taking additional accounting courses on Coursera and hoping to take CPA while maintaining responsibilities in 40's and steering my carreer not just for a pay check.

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There’s a book Mastery by Robert Greene, can look up a summary but relevant advice on career choices

What do you like doing? Change to a different restricting firm?

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I'm curious how important it is to have a referral etc and what you'd recommend for applications opening in jan. Any advice is super appreciated I don't have any connections to the industry but it's something im interested in. 

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Alvarez & Marsal How does Alvarez & Marsal compare with MBB, Kearney, Roland Berger, etc. in India?

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If you recently left your company to take a fairly prestigious new job, but are right in the middle of MBB interviews, would it make sense to tell them? Or just maintain that you still work where you did when you originally applied? The MBB roles would start next summer anyhow

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Thinking of quitting without anything lined up. Posting it here only bc I’m on a visa. Not gonna glorify it since I’m quitting only bc I don’t like the nature of my job or the environment. Have no grand big things planned ahead. I’m fine with leaving the country. Has anyone been through this and have any advise?

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