Rebuilding confidence after a bad performance review from one partner and being cut off from their matters?

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Doesn’t hurt to interview and get a clean slate

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Feel free to send me a PM - I could maybe help

Just remind yourself that you are learning and trial/error is a huge part of practicing law. Reflect on what was said and use your discernment to decide which things are constructive versus maybe just a partner who has insanely high or unrealistic standards. When you’re at a law firm as much as it sucks never stop networking outside your firm, keep your resume updated and be ready to move quickly if it comes to that.

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I would just focus on doing a great job on the matters you do have and squirreling away an emergency fund. Knowing I can support myself in the worst case scenario has been GREAT for my confidence, personally.

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The practice of law is just that, it's practice. One Senior Attorney may not like your work style and effort and another may appreciate it. But don't let a bad review hold you back. Adversity is part of being an attorney. We don't always win, we aren't always successful, but we have to keep going.

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Remind yourself this probably means a bit of less work and you can enjoy more free time while enjoying that paycheck. Well played! However, see what went wrong (I’m assuming they told you), to give a good-faith effort. You don’t want to burn all bridges and get fired. You helpfully reduced your workflow, you don’t want to kill it all off now.

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Listen to the partner that matters ie, the partner gives you a raise + bonus

Bookmarking. My performance review is coming up soon and this advice is helpful, thanks for asking this

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If you don’t already have one, start a folder in your inbox where you save copies of any emails where someone compliments your work (e.g., “great work on this”). You can then refer back to this folder whenever you’re feeling down.

As for the bad review, ask that particular reviewer follow up questions if you need more clarity on what exactly you could have done better. Then learn what you can from it, and tell yourself you’re better off not working for that partner anyway.

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I’m in the same situation now I’m only a second year in big law, but the partner that I admire the most who does a lot of the type of work I aspire to do randomly cut me off from their matters over what I believe is a miscommunication issue about my availability to work on a case. it’s been really hard picking myself up from that plus a bad performance review, but I’m actively exploring my options of leaving big law.

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