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Refer her and get the bonus. Buy your wife something nice with it.
I work in same location and service line as an ex....almost never see him and when we do, it's totally professional, and not really a thing (and it was nottttttt a mutual/clean breakup ). Helps that we are both married now.
You act professionally and carry on
Go get some and deny until you die.
Don't give her any excuses to ruin your life "Gone Girl" style.
Re-ignite the fire
Not be an ass and let her move on with life?
1) Wish her all the best! 2) If you get a chance, help her and share (within your limits) all that you can. 3) Make sure she gets the offer, if she deserves it. 4) Be a MAN with a big heart and guts to face such situations.
Enjoy
Quit the firm! You just need pretense!
Get over it already
The human aspect is what many aren't considering here. What if there's still an attraction? What if they're staffed together? How does OP's wife feel about it? Happy hours? What will others in the office think if/when it gets out? This is a tough spot and I'm not envious. I think you and your wife should discuss options and a plan for each scenario.
Yeah OP, what's to worry about unless you treated her poorly and are worried about retribution?
You do not give a fuck.
Or what KPMG4 said lol
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I think the question should be, did you break up with her or did she break up with you? I do not see how this might affect you unless you broke up with her bc she was crazy and she still hates you for it
If you're posting this it obviously makes you uncomfortable. Tell someone and she can interview with another group.
I'd give her a tip, and then maybe some advice 😉
Holy shit some people are sour. @OP: my ex came to my office/city too. With intentions of starting things again. It can be super intimidating so I totally empathize with you. My best advice: try to avoid interaction as much as you can. If she approaches you, be professional, but don't be afraid to set boundaries if it starts becoming an issue. Best of luck to you sir.
How about grow up