So what do men really look for looks wise? Is it really all about the face?

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Nice smile, polite to people, open minded, and not always glued to social media. At least for me.

I’m late 20s, apparently this is quite rare. Or, at least among women who are still single.

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Not always. I dated a woman without a face once and I really liked her.

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Omg was her name Rachel???

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Yes, your face matters of course! What do you think women look for? Also, it varies person by person.

It really is more about the combination of looks + personality + compatibility, rather than one thing or another.

I also think most men look for someone who is at least somewhat “conventionally attractive” compared to current beauty standards.

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Not always! I have A cup boobs and am engaged to a very handsome, tall, successful man 😊. Though it probably helps that I’m also tall and blonde, just being frank

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Neither men nor women are a monolith

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That being said, I tend to be attracted to confidence (like sometimes just the way you walk into a room). Also being tall doesn’t hurt.

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Ideally everything lol
But face is primary for relationships. You’re gonna look at her more than you’re going to have s*x. Might as well have a pretty face.
Body is more important if it’s more a casual thing.

Personally, I have a thing for long hair and thin waist. A thin waist can make or break a girl’s looks in my eyes. (Waist to hip ratio)

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Then you have personality of course. I could write a few pages about that.

And figure

Face,body and if other men look at you.

If you are fun to be with, helpful, supportive, and feminine, there is a broad range of what is acceptable looks-wise

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