Thinking of having and kid and go back to school part time for a doctoral degree. RIP to my free time. I know I don’t need to do either one but I feel like it’s time while I have family support.

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Totally doable, it’s just hard. I currently wfh, sahm (with husband also wfh/sahd Tuesday-Friday), 1/2way through my MBA program. 3 toddlers, during the day 1 in preschool. Free time is hard to come by, but if you have family support, then that’s great! Best of luck and baby dust! ✨✨

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It WILL be hard, frustrating, exhausting…but if it’s in your heart and it will fulfill you then do it, my friend. The love of a child is incomparable, and furthering your education is an accomplishment no one can take from you. If you have the support, then you already know the answer. I’m sure you’ll make an amazing mom with Doctoral degree!

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Communicate with your partner. Let them know study/class time will mean you are not available. Make sure they will be and agree to be solo parent during those times. I started my MBA when my son was 8 months. Could not have done without husband and family suuport

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Make sure to save for what the market may be like when you try to return. Also may need to side hustle & coupon &&& to bridge gaps.

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