Was put on a “performance probation” out of what I believe was retaliation. I am only 8 months into this company . Majority of my team is new and so is the manager . I’ve had conversations with my managers regarding this and I’ve been given very blasè responses such as “it’s not black to white” “it’s qualitative and not quantitative” . Right now I’m angry because I feel I’m being gaslit . Has anyone been through something similar ? Looking for encouragement and advice

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Sorry you are experiencing this, it sounds like they are managing you out. Start networking, applying, and finding a new job asap

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If I had a dollar for every story about the boss who delegates their responsibilities b/c they refuse to learn a new tool or system I'd be rich. If you haven't already get everything you are being accused of in writing and prepare your disputes with proof/receipts to those allegations in writing.

Also if you think this is in retaliation you might need to speak with a higher-up that you can trust to help you come up with a game plan. I find that HR is almost always on the management side and is bad at arbitration unless there's a lawyer involved.

Make sure you are documenting all your communication with your manager. There are AI tools like Otter that are so great for this and when you all agree to something get it in writing.

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To clarify , no I was not made aware through any prior “performance discussions” . This is also not a formal PIP but it is to begin a paper trail. I cannot transfer to another team until 1 year . I’m trying my best to make it to a new year as I like the products I work with . I just don’t like the management . The “push through” is a mental thing because I have anxiety going through this .

Retaliation to what?

Also saw that the managers searched my LinkedIn . Yeah … definitely a blurred line of “performance” and underlying hateration in the dancery

Consider joining the PIP bowl asap

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