What to do when an account director is trashing you professionally to coworkers, especially if you’ve never worked with him... it’s really weird.

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At my company we have this thing called HR. They have people there who aren't anonymous that can answer questions exactly like this and actually help you take direct action. Sounds like you don't though, so talk to the person face to face maybe?

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