So over being analyzed head to toe by women at work while they are speaking to me, at least be more discreet about it

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Going to go out on a limb and say a guy would not likely post this unless he's trolling.

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Perhaps you're just a little bit self obsessed or possibly option B is that you have a booger hanging out of your nose.

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It's a subtle way of telling you to put more effort into your appearance, slob. 💁

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Maybe you dress nicely and they be 'mirin?

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SA1 I'm almost there! Just working my way down the most recent posts. 😉

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"I'm not just eye candy!"

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M or F?

@P2 would you say the same if a F was making this complaint?

Really C1?! Need to meet your morning bitchy comments quota?

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