What’s the best way that you can support a laid off colleague?

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Reach out to them when the dust settles and everyone has “moved on”

Offer to intro them to one of your connections - tell them to look through your LinkedIn network and offer an intro to anyone

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Offer to resign and give them your spot.

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Err, is that how lay offs work?😏

Being laid off without any clear explanation is scary and crushes your sense of self worth. What’s helped me are those coworkers and peers that remind me that my worth is more than a role at Deloitte. Reminding me how I helped them during my time at the firm. As humans our brains are really good at making up stories if we don’t have the facts to know exactly why we were selected. So we tend to blame and shame ourselves or get angry and lash out. Which is totally normal. But having others you trust remind you that this isn’t the end and that it doesn’t erase all the good we brought during our time there fills you up a little after a deflating separation call. Even just checking in helps.

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I was at a top tech firm for a while prior to joining Deloitte. They lay off very talented people on a regular basis...usually in very small batches here and there, and larger amounts in drastic times.

Layoffs are a reflection of the market with people being laid off either being a member of a specific business group that is not growing sufficiently or ending up on an outputted list of some algorithm.


It feels like rejection...that’s natural, but it’s not. You are very marketable. Every person I know from my previous employer that’s been laid off has landed on their feet and improved their situation. They were high performers just like you and well educated and trained...and they had the halo effect that comes with having that employer on their resume. You will do very well in the market.

Think good thoughts and believe in yourself. No one in the real world thinks you’re a low performer. Low performers is a consulting term...and it’s weird.

Deloitte operates at an Olympic level...when consultants exit into industry, they usually find how lightweight the real world is. Like an nba player lighting up the pickup courts.

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Thank you for your kind thoughts:) I am one of terminated workers. It would be really nice if you could write referral, contact to your network and ask if they are hiring, and once Inna while catch up and let them know that they are still in your network. My colleagues have been helping me so much and I am really grateful about it. Hope positive karma coming back to you:)

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Help hem find opportunities outside consulting

Be empathetic

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Write them a recommendation.

On LinkedIn...you can. Share thoughts in recommendation form that helps your colleague’s brand shine.

Offer to review their resume.
Send them positive messages frequently.

Start a protest / loot an apple store on their behalf

A wine or scotch club monthly membership for a year.

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