My boss hasn't been teaching me anything new and I've been left out of meetings with agency partners. Is it possible that she's not helping me grow on purpose?

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It doesn't really matter if she's doing it intentionally or not. If you aren't learning and aren't moving forward, it might be time to move along.

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Yes it could be that. Anyone that stunts your learning or keeps you away from meetings where you can learn is not looking out for your best interest.

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^ Agreed. Instead of getting caught up in the personal aspect of your relationship with your boss, just focus on yourself and your own growth. If you aren't learning and growing, it's time.

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Honestly, your boss's primary job is to make sure that there is a job for you in the next year - not to be your tutor. They are likely working too hard on keeping the ship afloat to helicopter over you.
Accusing your manager of sabotaging you is not going to help you grow. Look for projects you can take off of their plate and volunteer for it - that signals to them that you're hungry for more and can take serious responsibilities. Lastly, I just want to set the record straight - agency and vendor meetings are the biggest waste of time possible. Nothing gets done in 90% of them

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Why not ask her to join those meetings? I hate when juniors complain their bosses aren't doing enough. Speak up and learn to manage up. If you've done those things and see no improvement, take it personally and move on.

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If it was me, I'd set up time for a career chat over coffee. Talk to her that you've learned x,y and z and you're ready to take on more, such as a, b, c. Position the meeting as growth focused and see how that goes. It's a good way to tackle it and be proactive.

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Have you shown/told her you want to be involved more and in new things?

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Yea definitely has. I haven't seen anything move along or change

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It makes sense that your AMD feels like she's ignoring you because she doesn't have anyone in between to really help you grow. She's just way too busy. In cases like this you have to learn and grow as you complete tasks. "What can I do to help?" doesn't work. You have to be more strategic in you what you're asking for and think one level higher. Maybe start reading email chains your on and assume you also didn't have an AMD. Think what would you do and do it. Being useful without your boss to give direction key. It's not easy, but this happens a lot when teams are understaffed. Good luck.

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Have the conversation from an open, self-evaluating place not accusing your boss place. Maybe you aren't ready for those meetings / assignments? Just make sure you don't assume your boss is evil until you are doing everything you can to grow yourself.

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@fleushmanhillard I've been a planner for 2 years now. I'm definitely ready for more work. And it's not just my boss it's all of upper management in my small shop. Employee growth does not seem to be on the agenda for them

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Then what the others said

@director1 trust me, I've been volunteering to help other teams to see what other ways I can grow, since there is no supervisor/manager between me and my AMD there's no one else that can assist me in my growth. And I've constantly asked her for other things to work on and nothing comes out of it. She only gives me projects to work on that 98% of the time does not even get executed.

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Have you been complaining that you have too much work? If so, she might think she's trying to help you have less meetings so you can have more time to work.

The problem is that there is not enough work

👆 Yes!
If that fails and based in additional details you provided, next logical step is looking elsewhere for new job

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