With all the craziness of 2020 I found myself riding the roller coaster of emotions. I have said things here out of anger and sometimes also to stir the pot. I feel like my soul is under siege. I am actively working on this. Anyone else have this happen?

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why is the default anger?

It wasn’t. My initial emotions were empathy and humility. As time has progressed, the toxicity of some of the people here changed that.

sorry! not being judgemental at all. just trying to figure out what exactly was said or the overarching themes. or maybe an example of where you stirred the pot. so something has really struck a chord, is the the social unrest, the talks of layoff...

I mean some of the threads are pretty lighthearted here so I was just curious.

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