29 M and single for almost a year. Super frustrated sexually. Tried distracting myself by starting new habits like weightlifting and meditation. But can’t seem to shake it off. Any similar stories 🐠? How did you deal with it?

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Also why are you frustrated sexually? Like given the situation no one is getting any action but doesn’t mean sex is always on the mind. Do you watch too much porn? Asking seriously, no judgment.

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Cold showers bro

What do you mean by frustrated? Like you haven’t had any luck getting a partner?

Yes, especially since it’s not possible to meet new people. I think it’s just a phase. Its more physical rather than mental.

You are thinking only about it. Get a break!

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