36F Las Vegas. Alllllllll my friends are in relationships or tied down with kids. I was and ran for the hills (minus the kids). 😮‍💨 That was 3 years ago though 😅. I tend to be more at peace with my dog and cat at home or going to the gym. I love going out, but I’m also Team Homebody! Anyone else just enjoying the Team Homebody Single life but also finding it a bit mundane, but also love their freedom to do whatever, but also want a cuddle/movie/road trip/travel buddy? 😂 Shits conflicting 🥺

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I can totally relate Op — nothing wrong with how you feel.

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Yep, right there with you

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Yup

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I completely understand

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HAHAHA! We're literally in the same boat. I have no idea how to deal with this. I'm so conflicted as well. I'm getting bored but I know getting tied down and having kids is not the best option for me. Lol. Help!

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OMG. I feel like I am reading my own description! Haha. Don't worry, OP! You are not alone.

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