4+ months sober. I do zoom AA every day but this was the first time I shared as a newcomer. I have some phone numbers from the group and hoping to get a sponsor soon. I plan to be sober 1 year before I can think of doing the steps. I read Living Sober and The Big Book every day in addition to prayer and mindful meditation. But would love to chat with someone “telephone therapy” can be something like Discord or WhatsApp.

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If you're sober and attending meetings, you have already started working the steps. One day at a time means you work TODAY on what is in front of you. People who stay sober do this. Having a "plan" to start the actual work of change in the process of recover is just kicking the can down the road. Working on sober living today is preparing for the trouble that WILL come to you. If you are unprepared you will probably use again and be right back to your old ways.. Find a sponsor and get to work. You will be so happy you did..

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I appreciate the enthusiasm, and we all have to do what works best for us.

My experience, and what I’ve seen from others in AA, is that it’s best to jump into the steps immediately after getting a sponsor. And that when it comes to sobriety, I only try to stay sober today. I “planned” to stay sober lots of times when I was still drinking, and those plans always seemed to fall through...

Can you pls dm me the link to zoom AA?

Posted and Pinned. I figured others could benefit too.

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