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I am working in a MNC for 10 years and my wife was a teacher
Recently she took an initiative to start her own business, now she expects me to manage the business in order to support her. I already have a job and can't leave because of monetory support.

My mental health is detoriating as I am unable to manage both. I recently lost my laptop while travelling

And she accuses me of a person with poor mental strength always because I am always confused
Pls suggest

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Start waking up early in the morning and do some yoga. It’ll help in improving your focus and mental health.

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If your wife cannot manage her own business then why did she start it in the first place. Anyway since you already have a full time job, expecting you to do her work too is not right. maybe you can help her out on your days off but expecting you to do her work too is insane

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Get counseling.

This happened with me also but luckily on day1 I told my wife I will support her decision but can't help more than that.

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😂😂ask her to support your job by managing things herself.

If you are giving your sincere efforts to manage both stuff and still failing to do so...and it's bothering you that much.. that you can't even speak about it to her directly....then Better stick to what you do best.. that's your work ...and politely ask her to manage her own shit.

Nothing is more important than your own health.

We must always try to help eachother but surely not at the expense of your mental health.

😂Or better ask her to pay double your salary,so you can happily leave your job and manage daily expense.

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If she is accusing you day in day out then thats mental abuse. You need to sit with her set some boundaries to ensure you stay sane in this relationship.

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It's not you or her. You should be there for each other supporting each other. Depending on where you are working, its not possible to take up more work. You guys sit together and talk about this and see how to manage the business . She accusing you will not help anywhere and lead to further trouble in family life.

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