Am 35 and sometimes suffer from vaginal dryness. I don’t want my partner to know this. Is there a lube I can use which is unflavoured and unscented which I can use when my partner goes down on me. Basically anything which can stay undetected by my partner during oral sex

Any guys out there shave or trim their leg hair? Ladies - thoughts?

On the topic of intimacy with partners… I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2 years and the past year his libido has dropped to zero. Mostly due to work stress (he says). Whenever I try to initiate, he always shuts me down and says he’s not in the mood. I even touch him and he gets hard but stops me as soon as I try to unzip him. We went from once a week to maybe once a quarter.

I’ve talked to him about it and he says I should take care of myself. So frustrated. 😭😭

Females, how much of your personal life do you disclose to the men in your team? I.e. Lovers, relationships, ONS etc

Which holds better value a sub with date or without?

Is this still active? I’m a 25F in NoVA. Open to chatting!

What is the difference between fetish and kink? I thought they were same.

Any single females want to grab drinks/dinner in the city?
28M for reference!

My GF and I are dating for 2.5 yrs , She met an office colleague (he has a GF) recently who she initiated a friendship with. I feel that they interact a lot and I'm a little worried of her getting too close to him. A day ago she asked him for lunch and they were out for almost 4-5 hrs. When I expressed how I felt she keeps saying there's nothing going on. I feel that when start to get emotionally close to some other guy than SO then it's not a good sign in relationship. Am I overthinking? contd.

Any single girl staying in Kolkata?

24yr old female working in NYC (if that ever happens again) who's really just looking for someone to laugh with. The cynic in me is often overtaken by the joy I get from doing small things to (..cont)

Any single women like houses?

Unpopular opinion:
Don't understand what people are loving about Indian Matchmaking
I do not find it hilarious and do not find Nadia adorable 🙄

Need advice. Very Shy guy and girl, met a while back for a side hustle both like each other a LOT, relationship has progressed in other areas but not in the physical realm, primarily because neither officially asked the other out. Guy is a very rough around edges, asked for a date by saying ‘anytime you need breakfast or lunch, let me know’. I am an independent gal and didn’t like the way it came across. I really want to take this forward but am out of ideas on how to make a date happen.

There are too many men out there who think that just because I'm being polite, it's a sign that they should flirt with me while I'm at work. I thought this was 2022, why haven't we as a society gotten past this yet?

Late twenties M here. I like to travel, go on hikes and am pretty easy going. Any f wants to chat and see how it goes?

Met a guy thru a mutual friends. Our first date was a day trip together. He couldnt come to a group event this week bc of work but I ended up to his house to hookup after (my idea). He hasnt texted me about meeting up this weekend...do you think i should text him? Getting feelings for him and worried i should back off before getting hurt.

Actually starting to think I’ll be single forever. The apps go nowhere. How are you guys meeting people right now?

Anyone in a Florida PE shop want me to take them to lunch and the strip club and maybe play some Xbox afterwards? It’s kind of a date but not really. plz hire me

Any female in SFO/ Bay Area want to grab some drinks/bite tonight. 30 M

How’s the work life balance situation at Amex for data engineers?

Hi Fishes, How long does it take to finish the BGV at Amex? Do they call or email for any information? My DOJ is next week and has heard nothing from them yet.

Please suggest what to do.

What is the process involved in Onboarding? Have not received a laptop either.

@American Express

Hey fishes,

I've joined Amex in September, so just wanted to know whether I'll be eligible for appraisal, or should I confirm it with my director?
And if eligible, how much appraisal will I get ?

Has anyone been asked to look into creative automation platforms? If so, any success with finding a good solution you would recommend?

Project ends soon, looking to switch over to Accenture, Strategy& etc. Anyone have any opportunities? Actually looking to travel for work for a little bit

1. What are some recommended readings to get smart for the Investment banking role? 2. Would you recommend getting experience before going to MBA? Do banks offer offcycle internships 4 nonstudents?

Trying to help my retired dad - When I google for what to do after retirement, only retirement planning related things shows up. My dad has been a workaholic and hasn’t developed many hobbies he could pursue. I was wondering how I could help him stay slightly occupied if not busy. Anyone here experienced this with your parents or yourself? How did you navigate this?

Any technical writers here? Would you mind sharing your salary range? I'm getting an offer and would like to see what's a good salary range.

ATL Pride anyone?

How to manage an employee who always makes excuses for his/her mistakes?

Moving to atl- what are typical 1x1 rent prices?

Getting really annoyed with the fact that I can’t wake up early/stay up late. That’s the only time I can study during the week. How do you all do it? I feel like I’m physically/mentally unable to

So my home office is in city A and I got assigned to a job in city B. Would EY reimburse the flight if I’m flying from city C to city B?

Does your firm form leadership group trainings? We usually do every summer but we are starting one these last 2 months. We usually read books or watch something and then discuss. If you do them, do you think they are effective?

How is the usual work life balance of Manager and above roles in MC and SC teams of Deloitte USI, PwC AC, KPMG Global and EY GDS?

Looking for a summer sublet from June till mid or end of August - ideally a furnished 1B1B - open for Manhattan and Brooklyn/Williamsburg; ideally between 2.8-3K per month

TIA!

How much do you spend monthly on self care & what does it include?

any ADs wanna do young lions with me next year? i know it’s early but i’m eager. let’s meet up, do some spec, have some fun.

Hello everyone, i have 7 Yoe in Bid management in an electrical projects company. Currently on a break due to motherhood since last 2 yrs. Would like to restart my career. Any help or referrals will be very much appreciated.
Preferred location- Pune

Hi Fishes
Having 3.6 years of experience in SAP ABAP. How much package can I expect. Looking for a job change. Any referral would be appreciated. Already Servicing Notice Period.
LWD : AUG 29

My skin has always been a little dry. I’ve used plain coconut oil on my face for years (as a moisturizer) but recently stopped because my fave would just get red after application. Not itchy but I definitely felt like my skin was reacting. Any suggestions for non-acne related calming face washes or moisturizers?

Anyone here recommend a good laser hair removal device safe for your face? I used to go in every few months to get laser treatments but now looking to do it at home

Any guys out there shave or trim their leg hair? Ladies - thoughts?

Has anyone tried CeraVe daytime face lotion with 30 spf? I use and love the PM (even during the day in winter) and want to add SPF during the day without risking breakouts. Unfortunately I have dry, yet sensitive, acne prone skin.

M here who has a decent amount of random grey hairs. Rest of hair is very dark, close to black, so they stand out. Any recs on how to get rid of them?

Looking for a gift for my boyfriends mom. We’ve been together 6 months so nothing too personal but something more than flowers! Any ideas?

Do you all sometimes feel overwhelmed by all the self care tips you see online. Gua sha, sleeping mask, satin pillowcase, this body wash, that scrub, dermaplaning. I don’t know what I should do vs. what not. 😰 and I feel like if I don’t do it, I’m not taking care of myself and not going to look good a few years later. 😓

Need advice from fellow female 🐠. How do you manage the crazy travel schedule ( 2-3 cities a week) and yet look fresh and healthy. I’ve been getting tired so easily; weekends are a waste. Any guidance

I have family visiting from overseas. As foreign nationals where can they get no-cost covid PCR test?

Favorite light to medium coverage foundation with spf?

Where do you like to buy your gym clothes? What brand workout wear do you like the best? I have really only tried Old Navy.

Anyone tried biossance skin care line? I’m Pregnant and wanted something safe and clean during my pregnancy.

Facial skin is rough with ingrown hair (especially chin, neck, sideburns) due to constant tweezing. Doc recommends facial hair remover. I am afraid that will ruin skin. Any mild hair remover suggestions that work well on brown skin?

Has anyone in nyc been to LM Medical for Botox? In Greenwich village

For those of you taking Nutrafol, do you also add in collagen supplements to your routine or has the Nutrafol been helpful in itself? Thanks!

Has anyone seen or tried those anti-wrinkle straws? They kind of look like a hook but I was wondering if they actually helped or if they were simply gimmicked?

28,F divorced no child and no life , my marriage is nothing but a whole cheat drama, now parents are asking to marry anyone who can 'accept ' me but I never did anything wrong other than being innocent and naive and good to bad people, really wanted to live my life, somebody hold my hand when in distress and i ended up somebody who just need my money and body nothing else, just feel like committing suicide, never been a loser at any point of life , Life is bloody damn unfair

Looking for face lotion recommendations. I feel like I can’t even wash my face because my skin is so dry. Maybe I need to start having a skin care routine or whatever. Idk where to start

Has anyone found a serum that works on nasolabial folds?

I'm 29 and have acne! Tried everything, have temporary success with tretinoin (by temporary I mean - I get acne back while continuing usage) . I saw Proactive MD ad. Any experiences with it?