Anyone ever feel guilty about their long hours? My partner says she understands but I can't help but feel guilty about constantly having to turn down plans and missing out on things she and our friends are doing.

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Not really. Don't think I would have stayed in IB if I did honestly

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Yes I do, but I also know what I signed up for.

At the end of the day - You are responsible for your own life. Discipline now, while you are young and have the energy, will probably be worth the freedom later when you are old and have accumulated resources.

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