What does your spouse think of your job? Do they understand what you do?

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My spouse appreciates the paycheck but does not understand what VMware does. However, if I worked at Apple it would be easier for her to understand.

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Yes for the most part, big picture of it anyway. Though same side of the coin I don't always understand the ins and outs of their job either.

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Yes, my husband absolutely knows and understands what I do and the company I work for.

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My partner and I both work here, so yes she understands. 😊

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Working 50-60h weeks on average doesn’t help your dating life though, and who would want to date someone with no family anyway

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