Below is our situation, and I want to seek for budgeting advice:

Now we have a household income of $1.1M including stock equity. After tax income is ~$600K. Our mortgage + childcare/education expense is $17K per month. We plan to use all of our savings to pay back our mortgage to make our mortgage + childcare expense to be ~$12K per month.

Given all this:
1. What should we set as a budget for family vacation and grocery + eating out?

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No, $500k will definitely not be enough to live a worthwhile life.

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Absolutely understand. It will be incredibly difficult to live on merely $12k a month (after childcare and housing expenses).
Thought & prayers are with you.

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How long will childcare be 12k a month? It’s a temporary expense in most cases.

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No, it’s mortgage + childcare though. Not just childcare, so it’s going to be a long time. We don’t plan to pay back all mortgage but partial. And I heard from other parents summer camp cost is as high as childcare though.

What are you keeping as an emergency fund and in investments? Still contributing to retirement? 529s?

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I brought this up too. Using all of one’s savings to pay down the mortgage immediately raised red flags for me.

Get your investing and savings rate fixed first. Everything else can be spent.

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Agreed.

We all know how important it is to have an emergency fund and investments, especially in light of how unreliable Social Security and Medicare are becoming (thinking more about the investing part here). Granted I know that Social Security isn’t as much of a factor for most here, but important to consider.

My savings and investing percentage (including my IRA) is 30%.

Posts like these reinforce my decision to never have kids 😂

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I’m glad I didn’t.

2. My partner and I feel very burned out and we plan to switch jobs to roles with better WLB but lower pay. Potential roles we’re targeting would provide us a before tax household income of $$500K. Would that be enough given that our mortgage and childcare expense would be $12K per month?

I have a similar income. Mortgage + college expense for 2 = $16K/month. If I cut my income in half, my lifestyle would change pretty dramatically. My savings rate dropped significantly when kids started college.

MD, thanks for sharing! Yea, we recently bought a house with ridiculously high interest rates. Our kids are in private school and nanny+daycare stage. We thought we could do it because our income is good, but now we feel really burned out and want to take a step back. Having young kids and delegating all childcare to others is not something we want.

Honestly, I wouldn’t use all of my savings to pay off the mortgage, but I’m all about maintaining a safety net at all times, and I know that it took me a while to build mine up.

I know it’s personal preference and I don’t know your complete situation. Plus everyone grew up with different approaches to money, and that has an impact as well.

Bottom line? Please make sure that if you pay off your mortgage like this that you still can afford to pay for any surprises or emergencies that pop up. It sounds like you should be able to do that no problem, but better safe than sorry.

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