Big 4 fish, how do you handle independence reporting for your bf/gf? My bf works at a big 4 firm as a consultant (not audit) and from their vague definition, I qualify as a "spousal equivalent." He's always worried that he could theoretically get fired if he didn't report me and they found out about our relationship, but we definitely don't want to go through the process, especially considering I'd have to sell most of my stocks as they're restricted. Is there really a risk to not reporting me??

like
Posting as :
works at
You are currently posting as works at

The definition of spousal equivalent at my firm is long term significant other you live with. At least at EY, managers and above are candidates for potential audits. I’ve never been through one myself, but during this they will ask for a lot of information, so if you and your boyfriend are linked in certain ways like joint filing tax returns, both signing a lease or purchasing a house, I could certainly see them finding this as a significant exclusion in reporting. I’m not sure if they would be able to find out otherwise, but I wouldn’t rule it out as addresses are somewhat public information. I don’t know how they’d prove “long term” and distinguish between cohabitation and a roommate situation assuming you are only renting together and not filing government documents as a couple, though. There are certainly financial and potentially employment risks to this kind of omission though, yes.
I just went through reporting with my BF after moving in, and even though he’s also a consultant and already doing independence, it was still painful enough - so I definitely sympathize.

like

Related Posts

Is there a possibility of layoffs in Barclays India?

like

What was your average YoY salary growth for non-promotional years in big 4 advisory? I got exceeds two years in a row, is 8% annual increase per year too optimistic?

like

What if Elon Musk replaces Rajesh Gopinathan as the CEO of TCS?
All the useless managers will be fired?

funny

Hey there, just got a mail from a recruiter at Bain to discuss a potential specialist consultant opportunity. Any tips on what the interview process might be like , indicative comp and WLB? I have 7 years experience in the releavnt field (Acc & Big 4) so will be joining laterally.
TIA

like

Looking for advice. I have a few offers in negotiations for Senior IT audit role. My main motive is to get out of toxic work culture in B4 consulting and public accounting. Looking for better wlb, better work culture and decent compensation to make good living. Currently in TX making around 110K TC.

1. Children’s Place: Base-110K . Probable bonus of 3-5%. No relocation assistance or sign on bonus. Based in NJ. Location is closer to all my friends and family
(Continued)

like

Has anyone been able to negotiate anything extra or terms when being laid off?

like

Does anyone have any advice on how to convince yourself life is worth it when you think it’s not. I’m a 28 year guy, just got laid off from my job, have aspergers, have no friends, can’t find a gf, why do I even try anymore at anything

like
like

Is the difference between big 4 and MBB in compensation huge at top levels (SM and up)?

likefunny

Anyone able to refer for a good company as for internal audit or risk advisory? Looking for Richmond, VA area or fully remote. Target base is $125k and above. I have my CPA and 6-7 years of experience (1.5 at big 4, 3 in mgmt consulting, 1.5 corporate)

I just got laid off from my job as a gov contractor because the project I was working on ended. I’m currently a grad student part time and was hoping to work that job until finishing grad school before applying to consulting roles. Should I go ahead and try applying for those roles now since I don’t have a job? Or should I wait since I’m still in school until next May?

like

Is it safe to join PWC india at this point of time. Are we expecting any layoffs?

like

Grey Merge with AKQA, VMLYR merges with Geometry. Are those „mergers” just the coverups for potential wave of layoffs?

like

Lots of people loosing jobs due to Layoffs. Please ping me I can refer you in Accenture!

like

NDAs - signed my first one as a part of a severance agreement. thinking about leaving an honest review for this company, but unsure about the liabilities that come with this. (NDA mentioned no defamation) leaning on the side of letting it go, but this employer sucked BAD and i want others to know. ik its hard to give a straight answer bc it depends on the agreement, but wheres the line between bad mouthing vs your honest experience?

like

What big 4 have the best maturity and paternity leave policies?

like

Laid off after Thanksgiving. 54. Not done yet. Plenty to offer. In Detroit but ready and able to move anywhere. AD/CD. Hangin in there. How bout you?

like

Will there be any impact in Fidelity Investments due to recession? Will there be any job cuts? Please update.

like

More Posts

Anyone ever transitioned from account to integrated production? Any tips or suggestions?

like

I have to pass FAR andBEC before 12/31. What’s the best way to do it?

like

Hello!
I am looking for instructional designer positions. I have more than 4 years experience in learning and development with experience in Articulate Storyline, Captivate, Camtasia and storyboarding.

If anyone has openings in their company could you please refer me?
Thank you :)

like

Started talking to this guy through group a group telegram and one day he offered to pay for my lunch as I had helped him out with something. Since then he has been offering to pay for my dinners, salon visits, shopping etc and I have accepted 3-4 times. I am in a steady relationship and my boyfriend doesn’t know about this. The other guy just says he likes paying for my stuff and there’s no agenda. Is this a little weird?

funny

I’m a 3L applying in NYC for post grad employment. Which plaintiffs PI/Med firms have the best opportunities for a junior? Everything I find, including my past summer job, is a small shop with 3 partners max and a handful of established associates. I would really like plaintiffs side.

likesmart

Wats is the salary range for staff software engineer IN5 in Walmart in a cloud Architect role with 12 years of experience? What will be the yearly hike in the company?

like

Which is the more lucrative and flexible long term career path when comparing .NET development vs salesforce development.

By flexible I mean in terms of moving between positions, companies and technologies.

I've done both and am currently doing salesforce development but don't want to get pigeonholed.

like

Hi fishes,
Want some feedback for Employees Assistant Program (EAP) by Capgemini which provides facilities to connect with Therapist.
Actually I am going through some tough times(going through a divorce), want to connect to EAP to discuss my mental health issues.
I had connected once and they say that the conversations are strictly confidential.
Just wanted to know do they really keeps stuff confidential or can they inform my Manager regarding the personal conversations.

like

How much do you actually work per day. For me it is an avg of 3-4 hours

like

Need 11 likes for DM .
Thanks everyone.

like

What is your favorite free, file sharing collaboration site? I am building a birthday mashup video and have friends and family submitting numerous video clips and photos that I would like to house in one place with folders. Want easy upload and download.

like

📊 Curious to learn how diverse is Fishbowl? What's your age and nationality?

like

My district has finally gone 1-to-1. Is there a good app or website that I could use to have students submit answers anonymously while going over problems in class? I did this last week using Kahoot to go over a state testing review packet. It was great because I could see how many got the right answer and move on if no one missed the question. However, I would like to do it without having to create something in advance. I hope this doesn't sound confusing.

like

Hi guys,

I switched 20 days back to Optum. I have 7 years of experience working as a full stack Engineer, who is passionate working on both front end and back end on latest technologies. But my project is working only on back end with 10 years old tech stack. There is no front end work at all. What should I do?
I don't like working here at all, but I am not sure whether moving out again in a month will give bad Impression on my resume. Hence please give me advice on this situation

like

What is aws wwco in AWS proserv ?

Can some from Optum help me to fill self evaluation for common review. Iam new to Optum and not getting what to fill. If anyone shares what they filled , would do a copy paste.😂 Thanks Optum Tata Consultancy Deloitte

funnylike

What are the key things one should save when leaving Accenture? Things like key contacts, links to alumni sites, any well being points?

like

Hi fishes, I am as SAP ABAP consultant having 5+ yrs of YOE . Please suggest me which technical skills I should have to excel in my career as a technical consultant. Please guide me how to have those.

like

Has anyone successfully turned their side gig into full-time? Or an income enough that it could be?

like

Apply on below link if want referral in LTI
https://r.ripplehire.com/s/biDY1

Key Skills: SAP SD CS / SAP SD LE
Job Description:
- Should have good technical exposure to Primary skills/technologies: SAP SD CS / SAP SD LE
Good Client interfacing skills & should have involved in client interactions

Additional Posts in Consulting

Looking for suggestions on a good app that will notify me headlines related to O&G industry - in the past, I’ve just manually searched under energy but would like to follow closer in future. Help!

like

What are your book recommendations?

like

Just as I'm leaving from work to a planned roadtrip with friends this weekend, I get hit with an email from a partner requesting a draft of a deck by Sunday 5 pm. Wwyd? I'm still a new consultant btw

like

How much can I expect if I get hired as a Senior in EY SDC (San Antonio or Alpharetta). Is one location bigger or better than the other?

like

What’s the culture like at Guidehouse? Saw a product manager role there that looks interesting. Don’t know anyone who has worked there.

like

Lots of us are skilled at delivery but most sales books seem to focus on the pitch and closing... What are your best resources for learning to develop and nurture strong, lasting client relationships?

like

Favorite statistical modeling technique to use? ANN, SVM, LR, PCA, etc. And any specific reasons? Industry, ease, interpretability, etc.

like

Anyone has Manhattan GMAT prep PDF book?

like

Doing all the right things by networking, giving good interviews and researching opportunities but man, the job hunt moves SLOWWW! 🤦🏾‍♂️

like

Question from a newbie consultant - What are some good online courses/ books to improve consulting skills?

like

How do you remember/recall stories you prepared for interviews?

like

M/SM and above, why do you label a meeting as “touch point” or ask if you can have a “quick chat” when it’s something serious? Millennials like us always assume we’re about to get fired - I actually have been laid off in a meeting with that title. But at my new job, my boss asked for a “quick chat” to literally ask me to change the title of a meeting and then chat about christmas. Now that I’m in management, I want to understand it better.

like

Can introverts sustain in consulting??

likesmart

Looks like I'll be stranded in Boston due to the crummy weather. Any thoughts on what to do while I'm here??

like

Been offered a role at Accenture. Apparently it sits within the strategy team and is part of the Capability Network (CN) business. Is this their version of internal outsourcing/nearshore?

like

Last flight of the year ... from a tiny 5 gate airport with one bar. I ask if they have any scotch. Bartender: I don’t know .. haven’t had anyone ask for scotch in months. I admit defeat. Just water.

likefunny

What are the key things one should save when leaving Accenture? Things like key contacts, links to alumni sites, any well being points?

like

Hi Slalom Consulting fish! Can someone please explain how utilization and PTO work for you? How many hours are you expected to bill in a year? What’s utilization as a percentage? Particular interested in Slalom Federal but any answers would be appreciated!

like

Colleague passed my work on as his, how to handle this gracefully ?

like

Anyone else decline Green Choice? I've realized the points aren't worthy a clean room.

like

New to Fishbowl?

Download the Fishbowl app to
unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.
That was just a preview…
Sign Up to see all discussions
  • Discover what it’s like to work at companies from real professionals
  • Get candid advice from people in your field in a safe space
  • Chat and network with other professionals in your field
Sign up in seconds to unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.

Already a user?
Login here

Share

Embed this post

Copy and paste embed code on your site

Preview

Download the
Fishbowl app

See what’s happening in your industry
from the palm of your hand.

A phone with Fishbowl app

Scan your QR code to download
Fishbowl app on your mobile

Download app

Sign up for free to view this conversation on Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use and Privacy Policy

Already have an account? Log in

Sign up for free to continue using Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use(New) and Privacy Policy(New)
Messaging rates may apply

Already have an account? Log in

For account settings, visit Fishbowl on Desktop Browser or

General

Legal