Can men and their family reject if woman has gone through some kind of surgery in past. But she is okay now.

Any opinions?

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There is a chance. So, generally, people don't reveal such things.

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Yes you can , No need to feel bad about it this is how arranger marriage works. It applies on both sides people have many filters in arrange marriages. Just a suggestion give more value to internal features then external because external things can be achieved by money but you cant buy internal features.

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Thanks for your reply.... Good to hear about your thoughts...i will try to incorporate those in me

But what if it is noticable somehow?

Depends if you are comfortable with the kind of surgery she underwent. If you are not at all comfortable which I can depict with your question, you have full rights to deny. Also, think of the case vice versa, if you had gone through the surgery, would the girl and her family have accepted?

I would suggest pls talk this with ur future husband
So that there wont be any problems going forward in marriage

My honest 2 cents. Not having a strong answer of your own depicts your personality. Please reject her because she deserves better. Hope she finds a partner who can have strong sense of acceptance for who she is.

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