Desi fam - what are your views on Indian matchmaking? Is it perpetuating outdated stereotypes regarding the role of men/women and their expectations or is matchmaking the right approach for a majority of desis - be they in India or overseas?

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Arrange marriage is like rfp where you involve different teams for evaluation from multiple directions. it’s like projects which are started with executive sponsorship and have all stakeholders engaged - if the groom and bride have reviewed the compatibility, these projects have higher chances of success.

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Unfortunately the views this show portrays are regressive but are not outdated; as in there are still a large majority of Indians still continuing this culture, in and outside India.

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The show? It’s like any other reality tv. They make money from hyping up drama. Like most people don’t look or live like the people in “the bachelorette “

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Well arrange marriages have better success rate than love marriages as per statistics

Arrange marriages often, are done within same financial level families, similar faiths and customs which should reduce the scope of friction. It also has an element of spark if two people are interested to make it work.

Love marriage has its own merit and you primarily marry for the person and whatever you like in them. Risk is that people evolve and you can never gauge that.

It comes down to fate and willingness to carry your marriage in difficult times

This precisely ^

Saw the preview and it may be a lot of things but not inclusive

The show is entertaining! I’ll stop there, cringe is what I want on some days.

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