Do gay men even date anymore?

Feel like we just hook up.

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My husband and I date er, I mean, hook up with other mens.

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I went through that feeling, took some time off from hook ups and then met my husband via Grindr. That was 8 years ago. It’s possible.

Same here

I’ve always dated if a hook up worked out where I wanted to see the guy again and he was interested as well. I’m now in a four-year monogamous relationship with a guy who was “the other man”. But I hadn’t had sex with my ex for likely two years when I met him. So I can honestly say that I never cheated on my current partner.

Hinge has been a better option for me but I've also had success on Grindr. With the latter specifically, I think it's all about your profile and how you position yourself. It's pretty clear who is there to chat/connect and who is looking for right then. Give a profile refresh a try!

I’ve been meeting a lot of new couples lately

Let's start dating on here. DM me!

Id love to

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