Every 2nd or 3rd post on this bowl makes me cry. Because my whole life, and particularly my professional life, I so often felt like I was crazy or something was terribly wrong with me. My brain, my behavior, my mood, everything felt so different from the mass and god knows how it did drive me crazy. Got finally diagnosed (after my 2nd termination) a few months ago and found this bowl.
Im so so thankful for this bowl, the advices-sharing, and the feeling that im not alone on this boat. ✨❤️TY

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❤️ bb you’re neurodivergent (and way more fun than the typicals) … but on a serious note, yes finding this group can be a game changer

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