Feeling so conflicted. Love having my own firm for the autonomy and potential earning capacity. But for the last few months I’ve been feeling broke due to the state of the firm and feeling like I want/need a second job. Buttt there’s a lot of work to be done in our contingency cases so we can move them a long. Then, because we have made good money over the last few years, our tax bills are out of this world, leaving me stressed and broke. Not sure what to do.

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Idk. Tough one. If I were you, I’d stop and think about my priorities… family vs time spent at work vs revenue vs stress vs freedom from a boss etc etc

Make the move that best aligns with your priorities. Easier said than done, I know.

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Yes, very tough! I’m like let me work as much as I can for the time being until we have a baby.

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