Feels like I am always trying to prove to my manager I'm competent enough to do the job. I am a WOC and I get the feeling that they think I'm a "diversity hire" that needs to be watched because I wasn't actually qualified enough on my own. Not sure how much of a say they really had my hiring. Any advice for me in addressing or fixing this?

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No advice for you, friend. Just a virtual ::hug:: This is a very difficult situation. Any opportunity to switch teams?

The first step is to talk to your manager about how you're feeling. Explain that you're concerned that they don't think you're qualified for the job. Be honest about how their comments and actions are making you feel. Hoping things get better for you.

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