Full disclosure I was in a psychiatric hospital because I abruptly stopped taking my medication and it caused me to hallucinate and caused me to make an attempt on my life. I took ECT and I think it helped. I'm on medical leave between discharge and returning to work, I'm on leave until June 16th. I feel guilty about all this free time but also excited to use it. Am I a bad person?

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Absolutely not! The next two weeks will fly by, and before you know it, it’ll be time to return to work. Use this time for yourself. Go on a trip, sit on the couch, do whatever your heart desires ♥️ Glad that you’re okay now and still with us

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Not a bad person at all! Quite the opposite. I bet it took a lot of strength to go through that and also prioritize your health. Sending you support

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Not a bad person at all. Keep focusing on your health.

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I look at it this way when I feel guilty: without your mental health, you cannot give your clients or your employer your best.

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No. You have to take care of yourself.

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