Happened to me earlier today with a neighbor. How would you respond to someone who asks:

Do you have any advice as we are embarking on the journey of trying to conceive our first child?

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Relax and have fun with it

Don’t try, anecdotally both my kids were happy accidents.

Choose a safe word

It’s lower than you think.

Having a schedule kills sex life, so don’t push

Don’t over think it.

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