Has anyone left a job 1-2 months after starting? I ended up getting a much better offer unexpectedly. I am dreading quitting because my boss is amazing and I am really putting them in a bind by leaving. What did you tell them?

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Just remember that they wouldn’t hesitate to fire you if it was in their financial best interest. You don’t have to be more self-sacrificing than they would be.

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I left after one week. I had foolishly accepted an offer that was a massive pay cut. I was honest and explained I was having some mental health issues and just should not have taken the job bc I needed some time. But I knew they were kind people and would not try to smear me or anything. I see the partners at legal events now and we are all friendly.

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