Hello fellow men,
Had sex for the first time with my gf.
I asked her if she enjoyed it.
She said it's only for men to enjoy.

Want to ask experienced people if that's correct? Or is she under a completely false notion?

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They say this so that they can later blackmail men into doing things they want. Even if they enjoy it, they won't say because they want us to believe that sex is something that they do for us. However its more like a handshake where both parties are involved.

But why?
Because then they can manipulate you into doing things for them.
Want sex, take me on a date.
Want sex, take me on a trip.
Want sex, let me hang out with my hoe friends.
Want sex, let me go out with my male bestie.
Want sex, move to a different city without parents.
Want sex, do house chores even though I was at home the entire day.
Want sex, stop hanging out with your friends.
Want sex, then shut up and listen to my nagging.
Want sex, then tolerate my arrogance and disrespect.

The list goes on...

Women gain a lot in maintaining the myth that sex is only for men.

Whatever your chick says, I want you to remember that sex is a handshake, it involves both parties. Nobody is doing anyone any favors.

And yes, sex gets better with time. 1st time is always awkward.

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I don't understand why most women feel that sex is only needed for men. And for that need we use women whenever we feel like.

That upbringing and mindset should change in them.

In the same way as they are normalising sanitary pads and usage of condoms.

If we have to see in their way, that means all women are asexual.

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Totally false. Women enjoy sex and it releases so much of stress as well

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Yes women only enjoy when thier patner licking clit

Yeah, have heard penetration doesn't pleasure women that much. Try hitting gspot, You got to use your mouth/fingers & stimulate, I think it's double the pleasure for them. And they can have it multiple times in a session, unlike men.

Bhai woh jhut bol rahi h, read my answer above you will understand.

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