Hi all,


Please let me know if someone has been in same situation and how do you come out of it.


So my very long term relationship ended because families of both parents were not ready to accept.

We had to seperate. We were best friends for 4 years and then got into a relationship. I usually do not open up with people easily but with my bf I was very comfortable( also coz we were friends). That was the only relationship I ever had.  Moving on has been very difficult so far. 


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My uncle I met a week ago suddenly died. He hid his heart condition from his wife, my aunt. He was having tea in the morning when he had a stroke. She did not have a last word or consider the possibility that he’d pass away so suddenly and soon. She is beating herself up over how he left and they didn’t have a chance to talk that morning. Fishes, sharing this so you call your loved ones today and not take people for granted.

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Hi all,

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Please dm asap for referral.

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