Hi all,


Please let me know if someone has been in same situation and how do you come out of it.


So my very long term relationship ended because families of both parents were not ready to accept.

We had to seperate. We were best friends for 4 years and then got into a relationship. I usually do not open up with people easily but with my bf I was very comfortable( also coz we were friends). That was the only relationship I ever had.  Moving on has been very difficult so far. 


Cont.

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Would you rather lick 👅 a porcupine or go back to your ex?

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Question about inclusion…. I’ve been teaching inclusion for 5 years so I’m still a newb, but a first year coworker of mine said she got points off on her observation because her kids were scattered in the classroom and she was having to move from kid to kid to assist. While I see the point of putting them together for convenience, I don’t agree with this at all! To me this is like singling them out by putting them all together instead of INCLUDED amongst peers. What do y’all think?

I feel stuck. This job is hard. Feels like lots of people piling on while I’m away from home and my SO. It would be nice to feel more supported and have less toxic clients.

I am getting ready to send my 2 year old toddler to a toddler program next week for the first time. Have to fill out a form “bathroom waiver”, which is basically allowing teachers at the school to clean my child after a potty, including genital area. I feel uneasy about this but I know I have to let them… I assume all parents have signed such waiver?

Stupid Question- We have been thinking for IVF and trying to understand with this process, is there any difference in the health and life of the child as compared to a child born without IVF. I did ask this with our doctor and he said casually its all same. This is not to question any doctor but just to really understand what is going to be different with the kid. This is not very old technology and not much studies as well.

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2)cognizant java developer with spring boot

Please suggest

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