Hi all. We’re first time home buyers in NYC and looking to buy in the city. We’re in our late 30s and waited too long to buy and now we feel like we’re ready for the commitment. Although there’s high interest rates and low inventories, but we know that even with high interest rate and home prices, we are willing to pay more (hopefully temporarily) for the sake of ownership. Plan is to finance the home with 5-7 year ARM loan and then refinance when interest rate drops. Contd.

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ARM is risky. You don’t know that interest rates will drop. You just don’t. Nobody can.

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It doesn’t matter how common it is. It has inherent risk. If, god forbid, rates rise another 5% and stay that way due to who knows why what will you do then? Your mortgage could increase greatly and you may have to do a cash IN refinance (this is a thing) to prevent a ballooning payment

Remember, ARMs were the norm prior to 2008, everyone was doing it. Something being the social norm does not = something being financially smart

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I don't think that now is not the time to buy, but I do think you should reconsider the ARM. I worked in banking/finance in the early 2000s (prior to my second life in pharma) and I can tell you that the advisors were telling people the same thing about ARMs. They were very common and I saw the fallout of that-- bankruptcies and foreclosures. Even if rates do drop, the purpose of the ARM is that you get a lower rate at the beginning and then it adjusts after that. Your advisor is right-- you will pay less at the beginning, but (assuming a 3/1 ARM), it will adjust each year and it will be higher than the initial term.

Of course, do what is right for you and your family, but I would encourage you to do a bit more research on the mechanics of how this mortgage works before you make that decision. Use online calculators and be honest with yourself about your budget and future projections. It's easy to get caught up in the desire of home ownership, but remember that there are other costs as well that should be factored in. In short, ARMs can be a budgeting nightmare with big surprises down the line.

Just my thoughts-- I'm wishing you all the best.

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Thank you. We’re leaning against ARMs now actually. Taking a pulse check here has been helpful. Thanks much again.

Buying now is actually a great time, in the sense that you can get discounts on the price of the home while rates are still high and scaring off other buyers. But, the numbers need to make sense for your personal situation and what will give you a comfortable monthly payment. I’m happy to run thru scenarios and options with you! Send me a message and we can get started together.

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I wanted to check and see if we have any major holes in this plan. We’re generally moderate risk takers but also want to be fully aware of any risks if things go south. In short, can you please convince me why is now not the best time to buy if we can afford it?

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