Remember, its okay to not be okay.
Take time off and do what you enjoy.

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How does one tell their boss (owner of the company) that you are burnt out? The sheer volume of work is exhausting and I haven’t taken a true vacation as we are a small company so if something urgent comes to my email I feel like I must respond. I was given an additional title and more responsibilities last year as well but only a 3% raise for it.

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When and how do you push back on people senior to you? Fifth year dealing with supersenior associate (11th year) who completely lacks good judgment & common sense. One of those super smart but impractical types. As just one example, he recently called me to tell me to call someone who’s on vacation and ask them to send a calendar invite. I offered to send myself but apparently that wouldn’t work (presumably because it would be efficient & make sense.) At what point (and how) do I Just Say No?

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Lease ended … job is fully remote. Sold almost everything I own. Living off my bike for the foreseeable future. CO- May … UT/MT- June … vacation in banff July … All over CA from August thru December … maybe AZ for the winter? Hit me up if you want to ride!

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I am so beyond ready to leave my current job, but can’t yet, since bonuses are paid out in January. 😬

In the meantime, I’ve applied to a lot of similar roles (slightly higher) but have not heard - good or bad - from any. Is it common for companies to slow down hiring in December because of Q4 rush, people on holiday, etc.?

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How many PTO/Vacation days do you usually take off a year if your employer offers unlimited PTO/Vacation days?

I just started a new job and this is the first time I’ve ran into this. It sounds nice but at the same time I hate the lack of direction. Help!

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So who is offering to host the holiday party?

Moving from T2 to McKinsey. How do vacation requests work? I have family and friends getting married this fall in weddings delayed because of covid, but I’ll just have started so wanted to get a sense of how realistic taking vacation this fall would be and how to approach taking it (e.g. mention to HR, staffing). TIA!

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Finally hit my breaking point. Been nothing but irritable & pissed off these past few weeks. Coach asked me on Friday when I’ll be taking time off & I just broke down. I’m a top performer & a workhorse. I’ve put so much effort into making sure my team is okay I forgot about myself. Now I am buried in work, performance is dropping & I can’t stop crying randomly. I kept telling people I am drowning but no one was listening. Coach is leaning to tell everyone to backoff thankfully.

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How supportive are your companies when it comes to taking PTO for mental health days?

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If you do billable work on a given PTO/vacation day, do you still count that day as vacation? Or do you get that vacation day "back"? Or do you only get the part that you billed "back"? (Or some other option.)

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What’s the most entertaining (in a good or bad way) thing you’ve ever witnessed at a firm outing or holiday party?

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About to finish my first year. I’m a specialist. Only going to hit 65% of my hours (took a 4 week vacation cause of wedding/hm).

I never say no to work and i have fantastic reviews, and the head of my practice (with whom I work a lot for) has great things to say about me.

I’ve been fully utilized starting ~June, but first few months were slow. Am i fine?!

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Hey habibis expats! The market in Dubai is obscure when it comes to compensation and benefits. I suggest we add clarity by posting salaries, role/position and years of experience here and anything else you want to add such as benefits. I’ll start:

- Industry: tech
- Role: finance manager
- YOE: 5 years
- Comp: 270k aed/year + 5% bonus
- Other benefits: work from Europe/US 1 month/year, 30 vacation days

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Reminder:

Time Off Rules

#SAP #SuccessFactors #TimeOff #TimeManagement #BusinessRules

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How long after you start a new job is it appropriate to take a vacation? And for what length of time?

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Morning! Being laid off sux, I been down this road 5x in my career it never bets easier.

Dust off contacts and make your rounds
* if you’re in a good position to take time off do some, seems we all need a mental break anyway

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Just finished The Vanishing Half... any book recommendations for the holiday break?

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Anyone ever asked for a sign on bonus in the form of vacation days - so you don’t have to wait like 6 months in order to take 2weeks? Or ask for reduced pay at first to accelerate the accrual?

Any ideas on how to negotiate a delayed start date? I really want it to be Jan. My mental health needs some time off and this company breezed through interviews to offer in 1 week when I was expecting it to take at least a month. I really need some time to recover from burnout.

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Hey guys.. anyone looking for good friend... Getting saturated with wfh :(

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Feel really terrible at writing sketch comedy. I think this is just something I just cannot do. Anyone with tips? Advice? Anything?

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Hi Tamil Folks 👋

Created a dedicated bowl for Tamil Professionals for discussing offers, sharing referrals, gossiping, confession etc. , Interested folks please do join

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And other language ppl please dont judge me or call me language racist , just taught would be nice to have a bowl for tamil people thus this one. You too are open to join if you’re willing to. Thanks 🙏

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I am an IT professional having 9+ years of experience in ITIS, currently working as Infrastructure Tech Lead at CognizantIndia, Bangalore. Experience in managing a team of 100+ associates to align to the delivery SLA needs and training them to the process adherence and also to ensure Incident Management and Escalation Management are on par to the expectations

Let me know if there is a Opening matching my Skills

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We should do a meet and greet event so everyone can meet 🤗

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2 years out of UG & new to industry recruiting, true that most firms/companies stop interview cohorts during holiday season (End Nov/Dec), or just a myth? 🙄

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How much value do organizations give to managers/principals/partners who are great at developing internal talent? Does it make it easier to move up?

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Had to pull an all nighter and am convinced I will not make it through this day. Prayers are greatly appreciated.

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How is everyone doing with the current situation?

Anyone renew their lease in a managed/luxury building recently? Was your rent reduced to reflect the lower market pricing offered to new residents?

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Hi
Can anyone help me how should i explain my project on which i worked in my current company to the interviewer.would be very helpful if someone can help with the basic format from start to end or else can give example of their own project.

Thanks in advance

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I am a mechanical engineer and people think that because I am a "mechanical" engineer like I fix cars. It is part of the career, but it is not the same thing. It happens to others that people confuse your profession, or it's only to me?

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Anybody joined wipro recently??
I have my onboarding this Monday on 1st August. How much time did it take for you to get the laptop??

And what type of joining kit you got ??

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Anyone here who switched from TCS ( who was working in Nielsen Account) to NielsenIQ.
Please let me know if anyone, I have few doubts and wants to connect.
Tata Consultancy Nielsen Accenture

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Anyone here on simple and sinister kettlebell program?

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Hey I am looking for HR generalist profile in Pune.
I have 6 years of experience in same field.

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guys im looking for MidMarket M&A associate referrals. I graduate from my MBA in April 23’. Please DM /Connect would be happy to share details or arrange coffee chats .

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You are enough.


So many of us are struggling with constant peer pressures, family obligations, corporate demands and we always keep doubting our effort.

Remember, you are enough. You don't need constant validation from anyone. You are doing the best you can. And that is all that matters.

Sending you positive thoughts to a new week!

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People work best when inspired, connected, helped, communicated with and meet others. They learn so much from each other.
As we slowly get to opening offices, this bowl helps people by sharing tips, stories on how to stay sane, interpersonal skills etc.

How are you feeling today?

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What did you do to stay sane today?

To all the fishes out there silently struggling the biggest battles!
#hangon #youarenotalone

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Spend some time alone with nature. This is the bonding that helps us to relax, calm down nerves and uplifts our mood.

Did you spend your 10 minutes with nature today?

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I have started 'no screens' hour as the first hour when I wake up and the last hour before I sleep.

I realized there is no need to start thinking of that meeting, or how to create that presentation from the moment I wake up.

What is that 1 change you made to your lifestyle that has helped your mental wellbeing?

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Remember-
You are enough.

Does anyone here feel suicidal?
I have this inner urge of ending all my miseries. Sick of this looser life

A simple act of smiling at someone not only helps tee off the relationship, but sends all the right signals to your brain about your state.

Be generous with your smiles
You never know who needs it more than you.

Did you smile at a stranger today?

#smileaway #spreadlove

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Happy Mental wellness Day!
Hope you find what settles you.

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How are you coping with increasing anxiety and uncertainty over new variants?

I am finding it hard to comprehend and getting restless all the time.
Please share some tips. 🤔🙏

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