Hi everyone I am relocating to Hyderabad next month. Even though I look forward to meeting new people I can’t seem to ignore the fact that I will move away from family. My family situation is already complicated, my mom and dad are not on good terms so we don’t live together and when I move it’ll get worse. I am financially independent but I feel guilty for not being there for them. Is there any possibility of getting transferred to Gurgaon office(a lot closer to my home)if I talk to my manager?

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I know this isn't a popular opinion and guilt is a huge factor, but hear me out - you cannot parent your parents. It is unhealthy for you. You might be able to get to a closer office location, but you can't be home all the time. It will drain you out in the long run.
My suggestion would be to have one parent move with you across country, if possible, since you mention already living apart. The distance would do them good as well.

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