Hi everyone! I feel like I can be vulnerable on here, so here we go!

I feel like lately I'm pretty enough to want in a sexual way but not romantically. Just going from what I've been exposed to in real life. Shouldnt be thinking this way, so got a dating coach and therapist that specializes in dynamics and relationships. Oh, and am turning to date outside my city and state now, anything else I should do?

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What do you mean you aren’t pretty enough to want romantically?

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Thanks PwC2, didn’t want to come off as bragging about my self or anything

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It’s not about looks, how are you looking to date out of state?

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I travel, so events in cities is a way I was suggested to try.

You’re better off dating close to home unless it’s a wasteland. The challenge of throwing the strain of long distance into a new relationship is a big one. It’s easy to misunderstand people, misinterpret their level of commitment on both sides, and harder to build a real relationship. That’s bad advice imo

I've been dating at home zones for at least four years now,so I'm willing to change what I'm exposed to.

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