Hi everyone,
I was hoping someone could give me some advice. I’ve been taking care of my extremely sick (literally on the verge of dying) dog. I work from home so it’s not too much of a nuisance but I feel distracted all day long and can hardly get anything done because I worry about my dog. I feel like I’d benefit from a day off or even half a day off but I’ve only been working for my firm for a month now, plus I have “discretionary time off.” Would it be okay for me to ask for a day off?

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Yes, do it. Lots of people have pets, they'll understand. You wouldn't want to work there if they didn't.

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I took a day and half lugging my cat around town for urine crystals. Zero issues or repercussions at work.

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Yes. Take the time if you need it. I think anyone would be understanding of that.

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Absolutely take the time off. Regardless of how it'll look, you know it's for a real and valid reason and won't happen all the time. They'll see that (even if it takes a while) and you need to prioritize taking care of yourself and your pet.

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Take the time. That’s what it’s for, if the manager doesn’t have the empathy to realize this is a big deal, that person has other issues.

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Do you have to go into detail as to why you need time off? I would ask for a half day at least.

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Of course it's okay to take a break. I feel for you so much. I love my dog and would do everything for them. You should take a day off to spend time with your best friend. Hope it goes well.

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Take the time; but also, don’t feel like you need to provide an explanation.

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