How do you all handle the mental load of managing both work and personal responsibilities? Some days, I feel like I’m barely holding it together, between checking in on my team and managing my own life. Would love to hear any tips on staying balanced.

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I'm not sure if there really is a balance, when you get to a type of senior management you probably always have thoughts about how things are at work but I guess if you focus on each personal moment your life will have some type of balance. The thing is I don't believe there is anything wrong with enjoying what we do and achieved in both business and in our home lives.

I am definitely barely holiding it together most days but somehow I manage. Its funny because people have complimented me on how well I am able to balance everything but behind the scenes it often feels like it is all falling apart.

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