Looking for motivation to get me to my first Alcohol rehab appointment.

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Hi! You’re in the right place. Here’s my story in a nutshell and maybe this will help. 22 months ago, I lost my romantic relationship with my SO (but not his friendship), my mom who I’m super close with was distancing herself from me for her own sanity, my relationship with my SO’s family was rocky, I was skating by at work, and my life was starting to fall apart. It still looked functional from the outside and even quite good, but anyone who knew me well enough knew it was a mess. And I very well could have just not woken up after a night of drinking. Losing my SO romantically was the wake up call I finally needed. 22 months later...I am happily married, my mom lives with me in our new house in an in law suite, I have a new job I like more than the one I had, my relationship with my in laws is good, and most of all, I am happy, like myself, and respect myself. The old way of life only offered darkness and losing more things. The sober life has given me all that I’ve wanted back and more than I can ever imagine. I promise you will never regret getting sober. It took me many tries and many years, but it stuck. If I can do it, I know you can do it. Good luck and you’re in the right place here.

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20+ months of sobriety for me, and I’m beyond grateful to have found AA and started on a journey of recovery. Deep down I never felt like I fit in, and while drinking allowed me to feel social, it really only led to me doing things that made me hate myself.

I honestly like who I’m becoming and I’m in awe at the changes that have happened. I recently started a new job that I love, and I feel like I’m finally capable of being in a relationship where I have something to give. I’ve learned that I could have never done this on my own, and that the disease of alcoholism can’t be overcome by will power alone. It took a lot of pain and misery to get to this point, but I look back and know that it was all necessary for me to get where I am today.

With a little willingness, open mindedness, and humility I know that you’ll get there too.

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Thanks for sharing!

Posting late but here's a short simple reason. Addiction aside, short term disability covers your pay and insurance covers the rehab, so you get a chance to step back and reflect on your life, what's wrong, and what you can do about it. When else are you going to get that chance?

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