How do you deal with a boss who has a bias against you and demoralizes you? Calling him out a bad idea?

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speak up if you have a back up plan and are comfortable. switch teams if you can. nothing else possible, switch companies.

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Second this. I found myself in a similar position and felt trapped. Until you realize that the company you work for is just as replaceable as they treat the workers working for it

Speak up. And if that doesn’t work, find something better.

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Try to get feedback from other people. Could help you keep your job if they want to oust you.

I can no longer stomach a bad boss, I'd try to keep in mind you may need to look for another job.

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Unless u have a plan and/or power to leverage after calling him out, it's usually bad idea. On the other hand, does he have a car? I'd hire some mercenaries to take a shiet on his car.

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We are all remote

What bias do they have against you?

Yeah I’ve started to look too

Quit bro

This has happened to me in the past and I thought he was trying to get me to quit (to avoid paying unemployment) but I kept pushing through until finally he realized that his behavior was only fueling my fire to prove him wrong - eventually I did. Wasn’t easy though.

Hi, curious what you ended up doing? I’m in the same spot

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